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This writing business isn\u2019t working out for me. I type slowly, my grammar is atrocious, I\u2019m getting dimmer and more confused as I age, and of course, there\u2019s no money to be made. The best thing for me, instead of just growing more bitter, unsuccessful and out of touch, is to simply step away from the industry as gracefully as possible and throw my passions into something else.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m going to become a doula.<\/p>\n

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As fate would have it, some good friends of mine are expecting a baby in about six months, and one night over dinner they commented that I have a knack for always making those around me feel really comfortable and at ease and that they hoped they could get a doula that was as good at that as me. Right then and there I volunteered to be their doula and they jumped at the chance.<\/p>\n

In preparation for my new role, in which it will be my job to assist Tina before, during, or after childbirth, as well as her partner Raoul, (by providing physical assistance, and emotional support), I have been studying online, reading various pamphlets and sending encouraging emails. What follows are some of the emails I have sent the expectant couple:<\/p>\n

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Tina:<\/p>\n

I just wanted to check in, making sure that you were eating properly and getting all of the required nutrients. Remember, eggs and bone marrow make a great breakfast for mother’s-to-be!<\/p>\n

You\u2019re doing great and don\u2019t worry about your new neck fat, the odd\u2019s are in your favour that it\u2019s not thyroid cancer!<\/p>\n

Namaste,<\/p>\n

Michael Murray, Doula<\/p>\n

“IF I CAN DREAM IT, I CAN ACHIEVE IT.”<\/p>\n

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Tina:<\/p>\n

You\u2019re probably feeling pretty low now, but take solace in the fact that you were once beautiful and that many (some) men like big women. And in answer to your question, I have done quite a bit of research and the general consensus is that the pain associated with giving birth is really quite extreme. You\u2019re going to make a great mother!! (Also, no, I do not know what doula means, but I will find out!!)<\/p>\n

Namaste,<\/p>\n

Michael Murray, Doula<\/p>\n

“EVERYTHING HAS BEAUTY, BUT NOT EVERYONE CAN SEE.”<\/p>\n

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Tina:<\/p>\n

STAY AWAY FROM GREEN TEA AT ALL COSTS!!!! IT COULD DAMAGE THE BABY\u2019S DNA AND CREATE MUTATIONS IN THE CHILD!! (Hope it\u2019s not too late!)<\/p>\n

Namaste,<\/p>\n

Michael Murray, Doula<\/p>\n

\u201cTRY TO BE LIKE THE TURTLE\u2014COMFORTABLE IN YOUR OWN SHELL.\u201d<\/p>\n

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Raoul:<\/p>\n

As your family\u2019s doula, it\u2019s not just my job \u00a0to tend to the needs of your wife Tina, but to yours, too. I know this is a very stressful time for you, especially with you trying to build a rocking cradle before the baby is born, and you probably have a lot of questions about what your new life is going to be like, whether things in the bedroom with your wife will ever be the same (no) or if you\u2019ll be exhausted all the time (yes). In order to ameliorate these anxieties, I am going to schedule one-on-one therapy sessions each week at The House of Lancaster in Parkdale (There are new, more generous rules on touching). <\/a>Here, we will discuss matters of new parenting and hopefully take your mind off your worries. (The expense of these field trips will be embedded in my bill to you and Tina every two weeks.)<\/p>\n

Namaste,<\/p>\n

Michael Murray, Doula<\/p>\n

“FALL SEVEN TIMES AND STAND UP EIGHT.”<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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